LOVING A MAN

In relationships a lot of times we struggle because we make wrong choices, even though we want the best for our love lives. The good thing about choice is the liberty that it gives you to act right or move in the wrong direction. Sometimes the things or characteristics we yearn for in our partners are mostly not what we get. For a woman, love simply means being treated as special (attention) which comes in many ways, either by verbal expression or actual action. Women are often gullible to deceit in disguise, tending to trust easily and a lot of times men have used this weakness as a weapon of deceit. The fact is, the things men say are sometimes different from their do and for a woman to get to a point where she understands the differences is very crucial in defining the true state of a man's mind. You can keep this in check by watching out for loopholes in what he says and does. Many a times, the tendency to falter in words or actions can be noticed with careful observation. The good thing about love is loving yourself better, then that love will radiate to your partner. Love in any relationship works well when it is reciprocated. The mistakes a lot of people do is loving their partners with the hope that they will grow to love them in return. This can only happen if there’s an attraction which occurs in rare cases but not in recent times. It’s advisable for a woman to marry someone who loves her more, than marrying whom she loves. The reason is because men tend to love at 100percent in the beginning of the chase and when the chase is over, the fun of chasing reduced, their quest conquered then the percentage of the love they felt at the initial period decreases. When this happens the percentage of their love reduces to about 70percent or less while the woman’s love increases from point zero to a 100. The woman begins to feel abandoned and complains about the partner’s lack of attention. While this may last for a period of time the love seems to take up momentum sometime at the midpoint again soaring higher. The risk at marrying a man who loves you not is in the reverse, resulting in heartbreak. You will hate yourself and feel not only rejected but inferior; doing everything from begging to leaking is feet for attention. As a woman your love for a man should be minimal at the beginning-increasing to it’s peak, this way you are both at equilibrium. When it comes to loving a man, you need wisdom in every aspect of your life- appearances, communication, finances, and brains! Put your acts together ladies!