In building up your self-esteem you've to first of all accept who you are -pimples and all! It doesn't matter how you look. You've to learn to be comfortable with who you're, love yourself and treat yourself right. Work on your carriage- charisma! Carry yourself like you're important and of course you're important and very special, you're you, unique. So lift up your shoulders and level your head and walk tall.
Second thing is you've to give yourself room to make mistakes, it's human to err, nobody is perfect and that includes you! So allow your mistakes to teach you, give yourself the room to make mistakes and when you do , recognize them for what they are, Mistakes! Then forgive yourself. You wont be you without making them.
Thirdly, life is about the choices we make. Choose to react or act in the situations you find yourself. But do the right thing. Some good things are not the right thing. your ability to act or react in certain situations in life will help you understand yourself better. For instance, your decisions on life, love and relationships issues will go a long way in determining how others treat you.
Lastly, deal with your fears. Looked at them at a different stand point critically. Find out why you are afraid of your fear, whatever it is. Look at them from another perspective.
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