Life will teach you a lot of things if you critically look at your mistakes. Find out why you made a mistake, what caused it, how and when you intend dealing with it, and the lessons you've learnt from it. Mistakes are intended to teach us.
Lets look at your individual mistakes for a start.
When you goof, recognise that you've made an error.Acknowledging your mistake instantly will help you to retrace your steps and it will go a long way in helping you address the situation. When that is done, you'll need to make effort to:
-Forgive yourself.
This will help you to proceed in life. Note that, you're being you by making that mistake, it's your learning process and to succeed in life you will fail as many times as necessary to learn.
-Correct the mistake.
Ofcousre, going back or taking what you've said or done sometimes seems hard but you can try by apologising to the person involve. A simple, "I am Sorry", will do. But you've to mean it from your heart. Then make efforts not to repeat it again.
-Learn from the mistake.
There is always a lesson from every mistake that you make in life if you look closely. This means, critically looking at it without being partial about it. Scrutinized your side of the mistake especially if you're not the only one involved. Extract the lessons from it.
-Let go of it.
Don't have bag loads of regrets stabbing at your heart. Forget it, it's past. Don't try to relive the past. Leave it there were it belongs.... The PAST!
-Don't try to change what you can't control.
-Build on what you have at hand.
What you can do today, stick your guns to it, Do it!
Don't procrastinate.
-Worry less about the future.
Tomorrow will take care of it self.
-Think through every choice of words, actions, reactions and your decisions before making a move.
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